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Re: "Pick up" service... Carol
Although we often do not agree, through the years we have maintained a sort of bond and I've never given you anything other than the best advice I've had to offer and will continue as long as needed or can..what I am about to say is no reflection on anyone but needs to be said. While you are alive and of sound mind, you need to be in control of your own affairs. You need to know what those passwords are and what they belong to. How much is in savings and checking accounts. How much is coming in and how much is going out. You may turn over the upkeep to Jane, but nothing should be withdrawn without your knowledge and consent and it would behoove you to check that yourself at least once a month. Once you are familiar with what to look at, it only takes a couple of minutes to check.
It's not a matter of someone finding the time, it's a necessity, so don't let it drag out. Copy the access information and save it so you don't have to ask for it again and can check whenever you feel the need. My intent is not to plant seeds in your mind but its a matter of common sense. Jane is not your son's spouse and you've said yourself you hardly know her. I don't even give my kids that kind of access.
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