P.S. It was late last night when I wrote the above and I forgot to mention something important. The person the birthday luncheon was made for was very recently diagnosed with a recurrence of cancer for the third time. My daughter has been battling pancreatic cancer for over a year now, I am in the thick of it every day, you cannot get away from what cancer and its treatments do and how it changes lives. I would have liked to be at the luncheon especially to show my friendship and support to this lady who is embarking again on a scary journey of biopsies, surgery, radiation, chemo.

So OK. The Zoom is in 2 hours. Do I attend or not? My head tells me yes; my heart tells me no.