Nevertheless, your life experiences are not Delphine's, and hers are not yours.
Based on one factor you have in common with this stranger, you are projecting on her through the filter of your own life and judging her accordingly. That is normally how prejudiced people judge others - using their perception of self & family as the gold standard for measuring others with totally different life-stories. I am guessing you may also know from experience that children with non-standard parentage backgrounds can also be as different from one another as any two folks can be. Let's also remember Albert was exposed for having done wrong, not Delphine.... Otherwise, she would be receiving nothing.
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