Whis is this "us" you refer to? In fact, in the 21st century everyone is a "me" and there is no "us" since everyone now has a voice. Sorry, but it's no longer a 19th century genteel drawing room from a period novel with court bows. The link you provide indicates a woman who continues to exploit the "York" name for career/business identity reasons as "Beatrice York" even though she no longer is "of York" formally speaking? How seedy....especially considering the taint that now remains attached for a long long time on that word: "York". Perhaps she should have heeded her father's loss of use of that name and changed it too but no, she continues to exploit same. "The apple doesn't fall far from the tree"her and the sister. Haveanicewekendthough.