Perfectly understandable Rich. Those of us on here have been on da Stoop and known each other for about 20 years or so. During that time some of us have gone through some traumatic events and revealed things about ourselves that we might not put out on Facebook. When we had a full complement of posters as we had back in the day, after awhile a level of trust developed among some of us and we might have had personal contact at lunches and visits. Believe it or not, with time, you get a sense of the person behind the post and who they are.