You know that first sentence is utter nonsense given I provided you with several examples of me criticising him.
I said you come across as a bitter person towards Ben as you aren't able to give a balanced opinion on him. You may not be, but if someone were to make that judgement based on your opinions on Ben, it's a fair conclusion to make.
Same as pig-headed, which is another way of saying you're too stubborn to admit you're wrong so you've instead decided to become more entrenched in your views for fear of losing face.