If you genuinely don't dislike Ben then you it must be a pig-headed refusal to admit you're wrong about someone, so you're just digging in deeper and doubling down. I've never seen someone to clutch at so many flimsy straws as a way to avoid complimenting a player.
That's the difference we have on this subject; I think Ben's a great goalkeeper yet I'm not blind to his flaws and have said as much many times, but those flaws are more often than not outweighed by the positives. You on the other hand jump at the chance to criticise him for anything and everything and never acknowledge when plays well, instead find a weird angle to downplay it. There's no balance in your position, it's always anti-Ben whenever the topic comes up.
I'd respect your viewpoint 10x more if you simply said 'Ben played well today' once, but instead you come across as a bitter person with an axe to grind.