I agree with everything you posted.
I am really miserable living under these conditions. Jane is also and it looks like my son is starting to stress out as well. Donna only comes every two weeks so the place is in more than a need of a cleaning by then. I ask my son to do something, he says, "OK" and it's not done. That broken chair is still sitting in the dining-room. There are almost always dirty dishes in the sink.
I'm miserable living like this but have little choice as I see it. I will be less stressed once this issue with the bills and money is dealt with.