Thank you all for helping me be there, REALLY be there for my son and my DIL through this time of deep grief that they are going through.

I will have to read "I will lend to you a bird." I've never come across it before. It will probably resonate with me because my identity was so wrapped up in Shiloh also. I've had people in the past who looked at me as if I had 2 heads, too, when talking about something I had done for Shiloh's welfare.

Cathy