I do not agree! My whole identity was enmeshed in Bailey...my last flock member. He was nothing close to "Just" a bird and for me he was so much more than any dog or cat could be. We fit each other. I am honored to have changed my schedule over and over to help him in repayment for all he has given me. If I could do it again...Sigh. Don't let whomever these folks are get into your head, Diane! It shows just how much you love and appreciate Max. *And FYI...in grieving still, I am leaning on a Facebook group for those who have lost pets. I am the only bird owner in that group and no dog or cat owner has ever failed to acknowledge my feelings of loss. They have been very supportive and I make it known that Bailey was a cockatiel.