Thank you Cathy…I can hardly believe it’s been three weeks already since Spikey has been gone…it still feels so empty here and so hard to talk about him without crying.I know this is a process but it doesn’t help fill that void he has left….I am so so thankful for this site to be able to share my feelings knowing all to well everyone here has most likely experienced the same..the hurt is so strong but the memories they are just priceless