My heart and soul grieved for each of my babies when they flew across the Rainbow Bridge! I still have pain when I think of those who left me. There is no way to set a date for our grief to end. We have so many emotions to cope with when we lose one. Your heart will gradually heal but the memories and the love never leaves. But one day you will find the crushing pain has left and the healing will begin. Love is pain and joy all wrapped together in our hearts. It brought wonderful joy but one day it will bring love and wonderful memories to you once again. Love is a many splendored thing.