I truly know what you are saying about it getting to you!
I know where Owensboro, Ky is! We went through it to Ft Campbell when my step son was stationed there. I live in Brown Co. Indiana..outside the town of Nashville which is a tourist town. It's really a neat place, but I never go into it other than when someone comes for a visit and wants to go there. Nashville is about 45 miles from Indianapolis.
Take care Jennifer and keep me updated..and if you need to vent I understand.
Prayers and hugs,Ruby