Re: Good Morning Posse, I'm alive, I think....LOL
Posted by BethNJ on 10/12/2018, 11:33 am
Hello my dear Posse Family. I'm sorry I've been MIA since July but after 11 weeks taking care of so much and most by myself, I came back to NC home 2 weeks ago today. |
I am most grateful to my children and neighbor who secured my home when Hurricane Florence came through. I was busy securing my parents home in VA while sorting and going through everything and planning an Estate Sale of thousands of pieces of 60 yrs. accumulation. a difficult task but did it by myself and glad I did. It helped give me closure and I was able to do what 3 people should have done all by myself. Yes, I will pat myself on the back for not killing anyone....LOL The sale had to be moved up a week as did the closing on my family home due to Florence. After the sale ended I had 4 days to remove all leftovers from the home, basement and 3 car garage full of tools. I was blessed with a man who did nothing but "clean out" who came to the Estate Sale on the last day to meet me. A gentlemen's agreement was made and he began his hard task on my behalf the next day. The house was emptied (except my stuff) by Thur, night, the day before closing. He charged me nothing and he paid me nothing. He got everything for removing it. I was blessed. Miracles just kept falling at my feet during all this. I know people were praying for me, my HS friends were helping me when they could after work. I'm truly blessed.
My niece flew in day before closing in afternoon and left Friday after closing. Was not necessary but guess she felt the trip was needed. I gave her the Estate Sale check and 2 wks week later I got a check in the mail for my 1/3rd. WOW, I did all the work, everything for this and even hinted that I deserved a bigger share of it but N O....split 3 ways. Yip, thanks for their help.....WAS NONE. However, I have not said not will I say a word. God sees and knows all. I made my parents proud of the work I did and that's all that counts.
Sorry to ramble on but just updating why I've been MIA so long.
I'm exhausted and just need peace now. I have a big job here sat home now to make room for things I brought home, promises I made to my parents, mostly my dear mom. Now they are together again and I am just glad this is all over. Well, this part anyhow. Now the estate/trust is another can of worms. It's just money, it's unreal how this was written but once again, I'm letting God take control. It's not worth my health. Won't go into detail but if you're writing a trust, be careful of some of the clauses and state regs applied. One can be screwed quickly....LOL
Love you all and mean it. I need a lot of rest. Not on line much but have survived weeks of hell and two hurricanes. I'm blessed!
My "2016" saying is:
"All racers, mess a lot with Lagano" What goes around comes around". Lagano
**Praying daily for all my Posse family here**
Goooooooooo #88 Team