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Re: Hey everyone !!
Very good idea to wait a while and let her adjust more before telling her. That's what I'll do. She continually talks about going home which makes me sad but it's just not possible. I'd never forgive myself if she went back home and the fell in the night when Mark isn't there and I'm not there to know she fell and she'd lay there all night long. Or all day long. The alerts didn't work for her. She kept pushing the buttons or didn't remember pushing them. I sent 3 different ones back over the last couple of years . I just have to realize it's time. That's the hard part. We moved into that house when I was a senior in high school. Before that we rented . Mom always loved it there but she hasn't been able to care for it in a long time. Ugh !! I hate being the "parent" and making these decisions. About a year ago we went to a lawyer and I got Durable Power of Attorney for her and got her health care DNR, etc. also. So that's all done. Her funeral arrangements are made also. Had to do that before they would approve her for Medicaid. You wouldn't believe the nightmares I've had and crazy dreams.
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