I wouldn't say lose patience, but we need to learn fast. Couple of points. Dave Jones I remember was once asked how we would stop one of the Prem teams in the cup. He said something like " were not worried about what they will do,we will make them worried about what we do" he also didn't chsnge formation much and played the same players where possible.
I say this because I think we worry about the other team far too much. We over complicate and league 2 players are not good with that.
We should keep it more simple. Play 4 3 3 attack and make teams fear us. Instead we often change formation during games. Dc said it the other week in possession we play one formation out of it another. For me that's a recipie for confusion andmistakes