One solution that worked out better than expected was booking through
https://ewlimo.com/staten-island-to-hamptons-luxury-car-service/ Staten Island to Hamptons. Instead of worrying about directions or car rentals, we had a black car pick us up at home. It felt upscale but not over-the-top, and we were at the hotel in East Hampton without any delays. The seats were super comfy, and the ride itself was part of the fun. It took all the travel anxiety out of the weekend and made it feel like a real break. Highly recommend if you’re looking for ease and a touch of luxury.