I was in a similar situation - I also doubted whether it was worth investing in something more premium. In the end, I settled on natuzzi leather sofas, and after a year and a half of use, I have never regretted it. The leather is simply bomb - soft, but dense, does not wear out, even despite frequent use. We have a small child and a dog in our house - and everything is ok. Plus, it is a pleasure to sit on it. Italians know how to make furniture that is pleasing to the eye and lasts a long time.