Randy gave her access a few days before he passed away. We (his daughter and sisters) didn't think he'd give access to anyone.
In any case the therapist talked to us both and will send another Social worker to help me with the issue of money and bills. According to Jane who I asked to join us, there was no password to get into his computer as he said there was. WTF There is access to his office aps but they do have passwords she'll give us. Aps where he keeps track of bills and money. Somehow this will get straightened out and I will check monthly to see if any money "flies the coop." The SW will be looking out for MY best interest.
It's hard to believe your own kids would do something devious (use imagination) but terrible things have happened to seniors.