Get off Tinder. People are just there for hookups.

And unless you’re Christian, eHarmony isn’t for you either. They may not even let you make an account.

You work a job that takes up way too much time and that the average person can’t relate to. You need to be patient until you find an above average partner. I met my now-wife on Match in 2012 - after having used the service for over a year. I was in my mid-30s.

The more rural you are? The harder it’s going to be.

Be patient. Keep after it. But yes, it’s frustratingly slow.