Advocate for your program today. But don't go into the meeting saying "This isn't working" - go in with a solution. If they reject your solution, ask them to come up with another one that is equitable for your program and your kids.
Expecting kids to put in 14 hour days on the regular is asinine.
Meet before school. Check to make sure football isn't violating the 8 hour rule. (This happens WAY MORE than people think - practicing from 3:30-6 4 days a week IS A VIOLATION).