My wife and I had our first child right before the big shutdown.
The timing was perfect (selfish for me to say, I know), as we both got to be home with our baby for 6 months without worrying about daycare or anything like that.
Starting back this year has been very difficult. Even though this year is a rather light schedule compared to usual, we can't see both of us doing this for very long (we work together.)
We may make a change at the end of the year.
Know you're not alone.