Posted by musicalmama
on 4/25/2004, 8:45 pm, in reply to "How to tell if your spouse is gay"
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My best advice is go with your gut feeling. If his friends are gay or "coming out", chances is he probably is. My husband of 15 years just came out 6 months ago. I now go to a gay spouse support group. Check his e-mails and the bottom of his drawers. As cruel as it sounds, snoop! If he is having sex with men, you may be glad he wasn't having sex with you. Does he go out at all times of the night? Go on out of town trips without you? If you need some support or help, email me. I just went through what you're going through. I hope you're wrong, but straight men don't hang out with gay men. It just doesn't happen.
Good luck,
Pam
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