Dear Lori, I wish I had some words that would bring you comfort but from my own experience, only the passage of time can offer that. I have experienced going through a succession of losses as you have been experiencing and there is really nothing that can ease the pain but time. The thing I try to always remind myself of when I lose someone is to realize that I gave them the very best of my love as they gave me theirs. In this world, that is the best we can do. I "know" how much it hurts our hearts but I always tell myself to think of the love that was given and received. It is so precious and healing. Think of the love and that nothing can ever take that away from you.
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