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Posted by Colgan on 3/4/2008, 5:31 am, in reply to "Re: mission trip to Mexico"
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Give it a rest, Alice
No one believes you because you never tell the truth? Everyone who REALLY knows you agree with this fundamental fact. The only disagreement is whether you are a compulsive liar or a pathological liar, delusional or just plain evil. My vote is the last two but that's because I have seen a lot more.
If a normal person had your life, they would be able to be happy without having to lie all of the time.
A normal woman can actually say some of the words that you say without it just being another pathetic, insincere speech to make themselves' appear to be better than they really are.
Normal people do not have to use made up stories, a fake name, a fake accent, a fake emotions, fake Christianity, a fake personality, fake illnesses and pretend to be hard working because normal people are not so filled with such dissatisfaction with their own lives or self loathing.
I have known many REAL missionaries and REAL Christians to be embarrassed when I hear and read your attempts to pass yourself off as being anywhere near their classy, humble, hard-working, honest, unselfish, dedicated, true Christian hearts like Jeff for example. The man that your husband threatened at my parents funeral as the result of your false witness against him. He really did go to China and worked hard just he always has ( and you have only claimed to have) and he really is honest, dedicated and everything else that you can only pretend to be.
"It makes it easier when contemplating family members and anyone else who has chosen hatred, greed, and so much visciousness and selfishness in this large and needy world, to know that goodness does reign." While I appreciate this advice, Alice, I think it would have a lot more meaning if it came from someone credible instead of just another wolf in sheep' clothing.
I found it interesting that previously, you accidentally admitted that that live witnesses can be a problem. It reveals a lot of why you began your hateful, malicious behavior right before my parents passed away. It isn't just your petty jealousy. You purpously kept your family at home while you were in California not just to use them as leverage, you wouldn't have been able to do all of the greedy, manipulative things that you wanted to do, if they were there to watch you.
It was much easier for you to TELL them all of the hard work you were claiming to do on the phone and then just go back to "your room" to read your romance novels and then go out to eat with mom's money. If your family were there, you would have actually had to...well...work.
It is much easier for you to try to accuse me, my wife, kids, my mother in law, and my friends of doing the greedy stuff that you were doing if your family wasn't there to see it.
Of course, you have to assume that people are incredibly stupid to believe that you were the honest, hard working hero and everyone else was evil. The fact that you can keep putting your family in the position of having to defend you as the result of your lies, shows how little respect you have for them.
That's unfortunate because they really are good people. I know that you have succeeded in poisoning the well to make them hate me but that was your decision. While it was obviously arrogant of your husband to make decisions for my family that I did not give him or you permission to make, he was manipulated and lied to and while misguided, he thinks that he is showing you loyalty. Maybe he has always known that he has been your enabler all along but he doesn't know how to reverse it. He is trapped and I do feel bad for him.
I especially hope y nephew can have the sense of humor that I had about you while growing up. In spite of your abusive, controlling personality, you are a very funny character. It was always easier to just avoid taking you seriously until you attacked my family. Then you stopped being so funny.
It is too bad that he will not likely know any of his cousins except Melody. Whatever you accomplished with all of your greed, stealing and manipulation, I hope it was worth it.
It is just too bad that you have so little respect for your family, my parents, our relatives that you keep forcing us all to either keep pretending to believe your ridiculous stories and lies or confront you. I understand completely why everyone has chosen to ignore your mental problems because they are just too big for anyone other than a professional to deal with.
As for myself, while I am very happy with my life and with the truth, I am no longer going to allow myself to step back into the trap of pretending to be too stupid to see how absurd your lies are. I am not going to allow you to keep lying about my parents or my family. We are those "living witnesses" that will always worry you.
As for anyone else reading this; if you have noticed how so many things Alice has said over the years, sounds like it came out of a book but you figured that since she's married to a minister, she might be telling the truth...trust your instincts. You won't have to take my word for it.
Just don't tell Alice ANYTHING in confidence if you don't want Alice to turn around and tell everybody "Oh bless (his/her) heart! the have come a long way since they were institutionalized."
If you hate Christians, then Alice will give you a lot more excuses but it would be a mistake. She is not a real Christian nor do I know any REAL Christians who are anything like her.
If you are a Christian, then I can definitely relate to any embarrassment that you would feel if people chose to use her as an excuse to discredit your faith. I am afraid that I have given up on praying for her a long time ago.
Right now, I have a friend, Lizzy, that is like the sister that I never had and she is in a NY hospital awaiting a donor for a liver transplant and she can go into surgery in a few hours. She is loving, honest, generous, talented, young, beautiful inside and out. Lizzy doesn't have to lie to get attention or pretend to be a victim or pretend to have illnesses that she doesn't have to pretend to be sweet...she's the real thing. I really hope that Lizzy survives the surgery and is able to get well and enjoy a long life. Lizzy is relevant and Lizzy is real...the sister I never had.
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