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Posted by Colgan Bryan
on 1/7/2008, 8:15 pm, in reply to "name "issues""
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ALIAS (ALICE) BIERY SAYS “Why, as I remember, those were the last words of my dying father to you, "where were you," indeed in those last years after so many years of false promises?”
REALITY: This ventriloquism act you have of putting words in their mouths is a complete contradiction of what they were like in real life. You think you are insulting me but you are insulting their memory with your fictional melodrama.
Actually, when dad died you were 3000 miles away after abandoning them a couple of months prior to his death because of your tantrum. However, you still attempted to manipulate them from Florida by phone. You exhausted both of them with your obsession about their estate.
I was with dad when he passed away and we did talk a lot when he had the strength and I wouldn’t trade that time for anything. Ironically, your transparent attempts to manipulate them resulted in the opposite result from what you intended. He was a lot more diplomatic about your “issues” than mom but he was worried about the trouble that you were likely to cause. He had hoped that we could get along and deal with their affairs equally but mom new you too well to believe that was possible. Your constant manipulation and your constant accusations about me forced them to have to make decisions that they would have preferred not to make.
You didn’t like those decisions and you went to insane lengths to contradict them and even crazier lengths to justify your actions. In the end, dad’s wishes didn’t matter. When mom was in the hospital with the morphine drip you began to turn away visitors because “she’s in a coma” but you allowed one visitor, a lawyer who didn’t seem to mind having her sign a document changing their will leaving everything to you and then you immediately had her declared incompetent. Of course in your imagination, this is “okay because you are a minister’s wife.”
It was illegal and you accomplished a lot by being unopposed. Frankly, I just didn’t want to be you.
ALIAS (ALICE) BIERY SAYS
“Do you think you can finally bring yourself to return Father's ashes to his wife of fifty years so that they might at long last be buried together as they had desired and arranged?”
REALITY: I never had dad’s ashes and you would know that if you had responded to my letters and phone calls for all of those years.
One question; on the day that mom died, when you ransacked their home and “liberated” everything of value; why didn’t you just take the ashes then? They were in plain view, right next to the crystal and photographs that you “liberated.” Did you just forget? You obviously had time to vandalize the place by opening all of the windows in 110 degree weather and setting the AC to 60. You found the time to turn on all of the hot water faucets and set little traps for my family like placing an alarm clock set to midnight next to the crib for my 2 month old.
After you scheduled a memorial without me and disappeared with mom’s ashes, I had three choices; leave them in CA, take them with me or send them to a 3rd party who only have mom and dad’s best interest in mind. I chose the 3rd option and sent them before I returned to Florida. They agreed with my decision to avoid the “battle of the bodies” with you and they and they have been waiting patiently for some sign from you that you are getting the help you need.
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