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Posted by Lia on 7/25/2008, 2:32 am, in reply to "Re: Blah"
The response is far from insensitive but totally realistic. If there's someone who doesn't like being told it like it is, it's just tough fromage.
--Previous Message--
: I think that this response was insensitive and
: inappropriate. This guy is saying that he
: has resentment and bitterness in his heart
: and wants to get past it. I, too, have a
: sister-in-law who is very critical of
: everything I do. I have felt that I had to
: walk on egg shells the last few years to get
: along with her or not offend her. She's so
: easily offended and has said some things
: that have hurt me and my brother. The
: problem that I have right now is that I have
: reached out to her to resolve our issues,
: but she has acted like I had other motives
: like trying to divide their family, etc. I
: would say that you can be the
: "bigger" person and reach out to
: the both of them. Tell them that you don't
: want to be angry with them any longer and
: really mean it. If they still want to be
: bitter towards you, let it be. At least you
: tried. I wish you the best. Give your life
: to Christ who will help you. Your mind and
: heart is not warped; who wouldn't want to be
: loved and love their own family whether
: blood or not?! The fact is that she is
: married to your brother. They have become
: one, and it's a shame that she has tried to
: divide the two of you, but you need to
: forgive and be loving and kind anyhow. You
: must choose to forget her wrongs toward you.
: Yes, you'll know that she doesn't care a
: thing about you, but you have to not carry
: any bitterness in your heart, or it could
: cause health problems. Ask God to help you.
: I wish you the best.
:
: --Previous Message--
: Stop ####ing up your brother's life as well
: as
: his wife's. You obviously have some issues
: and are jealous and take it out on your
: sister in law. Cop on to yourself and get a
: life, hopefully that'll stop you from
: sticking our oar in. She's not your blood
: relative but I'm sure she has many blood
: relatives herself who love her and accept
: her the way she is so she can wipe her bum
: with your acceptance or lack of it. Lots of
: luck to you and your warped mind and heart,
: you'll need it!!!!!
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