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Late Bloomer Smokers
Posted by JS on 10/28/2009, 10:29:39, in reply to "Honestly trying to understand...."
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I here what you are saying and I don't find it as an addiction and at 50 and a closet smoker who came clean with my wife of 30 years to tell her that I have smoking fetish and that I want that to go away as for my dad died a little over a year ago from lung cancer , but I have to smoke or see a women smoking a 120s or 100s all white for a turn on and that is something that I have struggled with since I was 13 years of age and a smoker at thirteen and I could get over smoking if it didn't have a sexual hold on me and my wife thinks this is stupid and I tell her that it is and always has been a sexual thing for me and she use to smoke and she quit over 15 years ago and I would like to get past this and I do understand the addiction aspect to smoking and also the the thrill of it and my wife is turn off by the very thought of me or anyone smoking and most people that choose to smoke know the risk of this legal product and yet it has powerful hold of are lives and just as a person can eat too much or drink too much they to can smoke to much and if you have never smoked and you hold this against your friend you should not judge your friend you should understand that if she chooses to smoke that she still should be your friend and you should be there for her support and not judge anyone for there choices right or wrong.
--Previous Message--
: I'm not a troller trying
: to start an
: arguement....I truly
: want to learn. I get a
: rush out of my job...but
: it takes its toll. I
: don't understand
: addiction especially
: this one. I'm an
: "always in
: control" type of
: guy. When I read your
: posts, you don't sound
: like you're in control
: and neither does my
: friend. Some of you
: have TOLD your spouse
: you're now a smoker.
: Doesn't the spouse get a
: say? Sure I get a rush
: doing my job, but I
: wouldn't allow that to
: become an
: addiction....thats being
: out of control. Again,
: I'm just trying to
: understand my friend
: whom I love dearly and
: am seeking help. Thank
: You.
:
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