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Late Bloomer Smokers
Posted by smoky on 8/16/2009, 17:51:11, in reply to "Girlfriend Smoking Update"
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Fee,
Though it's an obvious roller coaster ride for you, just be thankful that she does smoke. Many guys out there, especially nowadays, will never get to experience that at all. Yours is an on/off thing, not an off/off like most others. Just savor each moment she smokes as if it's the last - 'cause it might very well be!
Lost In The "Clouds",
smoky
--Previous Message--
: I have posted before about
: my gf and her on again
: off again smoking. Just
: as a refresher, when we
: began dating, we were
: both in the closet with
: each other and found out
: about 5 months in to the
: relationship that we
: both smoked. Once it was
: out in the open, we
: started to smoke
: together. She usually
: only smoked at night,
: generally with a drink,
: but from time to time,
: would smoke at other
: times. On vacations, she
: was smoking all day
: long. Back home, she was
: back to her normal
: smoking pattern. After
: about 6 months of this,
: she announced that she
: was quitting. I told her
: that I was not and she
: actually became a pretty
: vehement anti during
: this period, which I
: though was really
: hypocritical of her. She
: did not smoke for about
: 6 months and then we
: went on a short
: vacation. During the
: trip, we were sitting
: out on our hotel room
: balcony having wine when
: out of the blue, she
: reached for the pack. I
: asked her what she was
: doing and she said that
: she really had the urge
: to smoke again. She lit
: up and that was it, she
: was back! She fell back
: into her previous
: smoking pattern of
: nighttime smoking. She
: did not smoke every
: single night, but she
: probably smoked about 25
: nights per month. We
: went on a cruise earlier
: this year and during the
: cruise, she smoked all
: day long, every day. It
: was a beautiful thing,
: because she really is a
: very sexy smoker. Once
: home again, she was back
: to the evening thing.
: This past Friday, we
: were outside having
: cocktails and
: cigarettes. When we went
: back inside, she
: announced, once again,
: that she was quitting. I
: want to interject that I
: do not understand how
: she is able to control
: the habit like this. On
: Saturday, Sunday and
: Monday, she did not
: partake with me, even
: when she was drinking.
: As a matter of fact, she
: made it a point to tell
: me that she was never
: smoking again.
: That brings us to last
: night. We are outside
: having cocktails. I, of
: course, am smoking.
: After I have had two
: cigarettes, our drinks
: were finished and she
: asked me to go inside
: and refresh our drinks.
: When I come back
: outside, lo and behold,
: she has a lit cigarette
: in her hand! She
: sheepishly grins and
: says that when I was
: inside, she kept staring
: at the pack and an
: overwhelming desire to
: smoke hit her. Belive it
: or not, she basically
: chain smoked TEN
: cigarettes and told me
: that she really needs
: them.
: I can not figure her
: out! Can't wait to see
: what this evening will
: bring. 50/50, she will
: tell me she is not
: smoking again!
:
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