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Late Bloomer Smokers
Posted by Gina on 6/18/2009, 11:12:33, in reply to "Re: Amy/ hubby still struggling"
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Hi Amy,
Wow, I guess that would floor me too if my husband smoked.
No I have never smoked before until now. It took me a little while to get use to inhaling but now I am ok.
My husband and I have been married eleven years.
Do you think that your husband will start smoking?
You said the other night you were on a emergency, were you able to smoke at all?
Everything is still ok on this end regarding the smoking, nothing has been brought up by hubby about it. I am looking forward to the weekend so we can have some time to ourselves before I leave next week for a few days. I have to let you go, need to go have a cigarette and get back to work. Enjoy the rest of your day.
Gina
--Previous Message--
: Hi Gina,
: Hope everything is going
: well for you. I am
: getting ready to leave
: for Columbus,Ohio today
: to work in the home
: office on Plan of
: Corrections. But I just
: had to tell you some
: news which floored me
: last night. Believe or
: not my HUSBAND actually
: smoked 3 cigarettes with
: me last night. I COULD
: NOT BELIEVE IT. BUTTTTT
: HE did not try to
: inhale. I ask him, what
: he thought, he said
: well, I can't see what
: anybody sees in smoking.
: I said thats because you
: have not really smoked
: till you have inhaled
: the smoke. He said so
: you say and thats all he
: said. I did not say
: anymore either. But he
: has never smoked in his
: life. Had you ever
: smoked before you
: started this time? Did
: you start learning to
: inhale right away or did
: you know how when you
: started. I been meaning
: to ask you how long has
: you and your HUBBY been
: married? Well crap I get
: to writing can not quit.
: Gotta go, I have got to
: stop on the way and pick
: me up a carton of
: Marlboro Lite 100's. See
: YA!!! Have A GREAT
: DAY!!!
:
: Amy
:
: --Previous Message--
: Hi Amy,
:
: I had a few minutes here
: so I just wanted to
: comment on a few things.
: I am still smoking about
: 7-8 a day so far.
: Sometimes it is hard to
: smoke being with
: customers and in
: meetings a lot of the
: days. I am a sales rep
: for a candy company in
: Philadelphia and my
: husband works for a
: software company. I am
: 42 years old and
: everybody thinks I am
: about 30. I am a very
: elegant dresser. I
: pretty much have to be
: for my job, meeting with
: potential customers and
: so forth. Now that it is
: warmer I love to wear
: ankle strap high heels
: with my dresses and
: heels. I am always
: feeling sexy and being
: that I have started
: smoking makes me feel
: even sexier. It is nice
: to take a break
: throughout the day and
: enjoy a cigarette. I
: would think I am pretty
: much addicted as I am
: continue to smoke. I am
: not really smoking at
: home to much. I don't
: want to open a can of
: worms again. Take care
: and I will keep posting.
:
: Gina
:
: --Previous Message--
: HI Gina,
: It was nice to hear
: from you. It sounds like
: everything is going
: pretty smooth on the
: home front other then
: you are so busy you do
: not know which ends up.
: I was looking at your
: post times and trying to
: decide when a good time
: to post so we could
: actually talk back and
: forth. But I do not know
: when that time would be
: with our schedules the
: way they are. Are you
: posting from work or
: home? Would you mind
: telling me what you and
: your husband both do for
: a living? Sounds like
: you are really beginning
: to enjoy smoking. Have
: you increased much like
: your husband said you
: would? I am thinking you
: probablely have and
: don't even think about
: it now. I spoke with my
: husband tonight on the
: same senario we started
: with and there is some
: other questions and
: answers which come up.
: But maybe just maybe you
: will not need them
: HOPEFULLY. Cause if you
: are like me you are
: going to do what you
: want to do with in
: reason. Did you read my
: post of earlier today?
: You did not comment on
: anything but I know you
: was rushed.
: GOTTA GO
:
: Amy
:
: --Previous Message--
:
: Hi Amy,
:
: I am very sorry I have
: not gotten back to you.
: I have just been totally
: busy with everything.
: Things have been going
: better as of late as my
: husband has not really
: brought up smoking. But
: we have both been really
: busy lately and really
: have not had much time
: to talk. Things will
: start to quiet down
: hopefully by the middle
: of this week. Then next
: week I have to go to
: Atlanta for a few days.
: I booked my hotel room
: last week and booked a
: smoking room. It will be
: nice at the end of the
: day to go back to my
: room and relax and have
: a few cigarettes and not
: have to worry about
: going outside like I
: have to anywhere else.
: Have to run, I will keep
: you posted.
:
: Gina
: --Previous Message--
: Hi Gina,
:
: I told you in my last
: post the assignment I
: went on was a huge one
: and I had to do it by my
: self. Well I had to work
: most of the week end did
: not get home till Sunday
: afternoon so I flexed on
: Monday. I am sorry I did
: not get a chance to
: really post back to you
: and answer your
: questions in depth till
: now but I just will not
: take that chance on
: company computer. That
: is the reason why I left
: you that email address
: of mine so you could
: email me. Here again I
: do not even play Pogo
: games on my company
: computer because they
: look where it has been
: every office day. But
: they have no problem
: with web email. I hope
: by now things have begin
: to calm down on the home
: front with your husband.
: I know way back in June
: or July of last year
: when my husband found
: out I was smoking even
: before I told him he was
: upset but then after we
: set down and talked
: about it and he realized
: I was my own person and
: HE was not my dad he
: actually told me over
: time he thought I looked
: sexy smoking. That just
: about floored me. But I
: can tell you we have a
: very strong marriage to.
: we have been married 16
: years so we been through
: thick and thin. We have
: know kids either. So it
: is just the two of us.
: I told you smoking has
: changed me well it has
: changed the way I dress
: for him. I get my nails
: done when I am home and
: I try to wear very sexy
: clothing when ever I am
: around him unless we are
: working in the yard or
: something like that. Do
: not take me wrong, I am
: not saying you do not
: dress nice. The other
: thing I carry perfume
: with me and mints so I
: can cover some of the
: smoke smell on me. Last
: but not least I can
: defanitely understand
: you saying the more he
: bugs me about smoking
: the more I just want to
: smoke. That is called
: being yourself and your
: own individual which I
: remarked about.
:
: AMY
:
: --Previous Message--
: Hi Amy,
:
: Thanks for your post. My
: husband & I sat down
: the other night and
: discussed a few things
: one of them being
: smoking. He ask me again
: why I would start such a
: unhealthy habit. I then
: thought about the things
: you posted. I said I am
: 42 and I am only smoking
: a few cigarettes a day
: (actually up to 7-8) and
: it is not any worse than
: you eating red meat and
: having high cholesterol.
: I by the way am very
: healthy and fit. The
: expense is not really an
: issue as we both have
: good paying jobs. He
: said the smell of
: cigarettes is nasty and
: said he can't stand
: kissing an ashtray. I
: guess that I smell of
: cigarette breath when I
: come home. I told him
: that I would chew gum or
: eat mints a little more.
: What do you do Amy? Do
: you have cigarette
: breath a lot and does
: your husband say
: anything or has he
: gotten use to it. The
: more he gets on me about
: this the more I just
: want to smoke.
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