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Late Bloomer Smokers
Posted by AMY on 6/15/2009, 21:14:53, in reply to "Re: Amy/ hubby still struggling"
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HI Gina,
It was nice to hear from you. It sounds like everything is going pretty smooth on the home front other then you are so busy you do not know which ends up. I was looking at your post times and trying to decide when a good time to post so we could actually talk back and forth. But I do not know when that time would be with our schedules the way they are. Are you posting from work or home? Would you mind telling me what you and your husband both do for a living? Sounds like you are really beginning to enjoy smoking. Have you increased much like your husband said you would? I am thinking you probablely have and don't even think about it now. I spoke with my husband tonight on the same senario we started with and there is some other questions and answers which come up. But maybe just maybe you will not need them HOPEFULLY. Cause if you are like me you are going to do what you want to do with in reason. Did you read my post of earlier today? You did not comment on anything but I know you was rushed.
GOTTA GO
Amy
--Previous Message--
:
: Hi Amy,
:
: I am very sorry I have
: not gotten back to you.
: I have just been totally
: busy with everything.
: Things have been going
: better as of late as my
: husband has not really
: brought up smoking. But
: we have both been really
: busy lately and really
: have not had much time
: to talk. Things will
: start to quiet down
: hopefully by the middle
: of this week. Then next
: week I have to go to
: Atlanta for a few days.
: I booked my hotel room
: last week and booked a
: smoking room. It will be
: nice at the end of the
: day to go back to my
: room and relax and have
: a few cigarettes and not
: have to worry about
: going outside like I
: have to anywhere else.
: Have to run, I will keep
: you posted.
:
: Gina
: --Previous Message--
: Hi Gina,
:
: I told you in my last
: post the assignment I
: went on was a huge one
: and I had to do it by my
: self. Well I had to work
: most of the week end did
: not get home till Sunday
: afternoon so I flexed on
: Monday. I am sorry I did
: not get a chance to
: really post back to you
: and answer your
: questions in depth till
: now but I just will not
: take that chance on
: company computer. That
: is the reason why I left
: you that email address
: of mine so you could
: email me. Here again I
: do not even play Pogo
: games on my company
: computer because they
: look where it has been
: every office day. But
: they have no problem
: with web email. I hope
: by now things have begin
: to calm down on the home
: front with your husband.
: I know way back in June
: or July of last year
: when my husband found
: out I was smoking even
: before I told him he was
: upset but then after we
: set down and talked
: about it and he realized
: I was my own person and
: HE was not my dad he
: actually told me over
: time he thought I looked
: sexy smoking. That just
: about floored me. But I
: can tell you we have a
: very strong marriage to.
: we have been married 16
: years so we been through
: thick and thin. We have
: know kids either. So it
: is just the two of us.
: I told you smoking has
: changed me well it has
: changed the way I dress
: for him. I get my nails
: done when I am home and
: I try to wear very sexy
: clothing when ever I am
: around him unless we are
: working in the yard or
: something like that. Do
: not take me wrong, I am
: not saying you do not
: dress nice. The other
: thing I carry perfume
: with me and mints so I
: can cover some of the
: smoke smell on me. Last
: but not least I can
: defanitely understand
: you saying the more he
: bugs me about smoking
: the more I just want to
: smoke. That is called
: being yourself and your
: own individual which I
: remarked about.
:
: AMY
:
: --Previous Message--
: Hi Amy,
:
: Thanks for your post. My
: husband & I sat down
: the other night and
: discussed a few things
: one of them being
: smoking. He ask me again
: why I would start such a
: unhealthy habit. I then
: thought about the things
: you posted. I said I am
: 42 and I am only smoking
: a few cigarettes a day
: (actually up to 7-8) and
: it is not any worse than
: you eating red meat and
: having high cholesterol.
: I by the way am very
: healthy and fit. The
: expense is not really an
: issue as we both have
: good paying jobs. He
: said the smell of
: cigarettes is nasty and
: said he can't stand
: kissing an ashtray. I
: guess that I smell of
: cigarette breath when I
: come home. I told him
: that I would chew gum or
: eat mints a little more.
: What do you do Amy? Do
: you have cigarette
: breath a lot and does
: your husband say
: anything or has he
: gotten use to it. The
: more he gets on me about
: this the more I just
: want to smoke.
:
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