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Late Bloomer Smokers
Posted by Gina on 6/4/2009, 13:46:19, in reply to "Re: Hubby not happy"
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Hi Amy,
Is your husband a smoker? How many cigarettes do you smoke in a day? The last couple of days I have had a cigarette with my coffee in the morning which was really good. I have been really getting use to the smoking. I don't know if it is because I am getting addicted or what. I am up to around 6 or 7 a day. I try to not smoke at home because the hubby still does not like it and I don't want to get him started about the smoking thing. Sometimes in the evening I will get the urge to have one and I will make an excuse to go to the store so I can have one. It is nice that I travel a lot by car and can light up whenever I want.
Gina
--Previous Message--
: Hi! Gina,
: Sorry to hear your
: hubby is giving you a
: rough time over you
: starting to smoke. I
: thought I would have the
: same problem because
: niether one of us had
: even thought about
: smoking till I took a
: trip with the ladies I
: work with to Las Vegas
: last year and I started
: out there. But I tell
: you what I think the
: very first time he found
: out about it he was very
: mad because he did not
: find out from me he
: found out by getting the
: checkbook out of my
: purse and seen my
: cigarettes in my purse.
: He waited for me to tell
: him I was smoking. I am
: 55 he is 54 years old. I
: work for the Ohio
: Department of Health and
: have a very stressfull
: job and do a lot of
: traveling. It sounds
: like you may have a very
: stressfull job and do a
: lot traveling all so.
: Now since I have been
: smoking a year I would
: not have it any other
: way and niether would
: he. Now he actually
: admits it has made me
: calmer, easier to get
: along with,I can control
: my weight better, it has
: just changed me all the
: way around and my
: husband loves the way it
: has changed me. It has
: all so changed the way I
: dress and I do not mean
: I dress sleasy now
: either. I have just
: become bolder now in
: everyway. I use to be a
: puppy dog. Your of age
: and if you want to smoke
: which obviously you do
: go for it if he loves
: you and you have a good
: marriage he will not
: hold it against you. I
: can tell over the last
: year it has made our
: marriage stronger. For
: me the long driving
: trips are not so boring
: now.
: GOOD LUCK!!!
:
:
: AMY
: --Previous Message--
: Well I told my hubby on
: Saturday that I have
: started smoking. He was
: surprised that I would
: start a nasty & bad
: habit. I pretty much
: told him that I am only
: smoking about 3-4 a day.
: He was not buying it. He
: said it is just a matter
: of time when you are
: going to want more.
: Needless to say I have
: been wanting to do it
: more. After a few hours
: now I am getting anxious
: and feel like I need one
: but I did not tell him
: that. That night we had
: a social gathering and I
: could tell he was not
: happy with me. So I was
: pretty much smoking a
: little more than usual
: because of the situation
: and also because I had a
: few drinks it made me
: want to smoke more also.
: I have to leave to go
: out of town for work
: tommorow for a few days
: and maybe when I come
: home he will not be as
: upset about it. I don't
: want to become addicted
: but feel I have. How
: have other people dealt
: with this situation?
:
: --Previous Message--
: Hi,
:
: I am 42 years old and
: recently decided to
: start smoking. I have
: been traveling a lot
: with my job and was at a
: meeting recently and
: afterwards we all
: decided to go out for
: drinks. Everybody was
: smoking except I. The
: next day after work I
: decided to go buy a pack
: of Marlboro lights and
: try it out for the 3
: hour ride home. I was
: really anxious to try
: the first one. After
: lighting up and taking a
: few puffs I threw it out
: the window thinking to
: myself how can anyone
: smoke these things.
: After being in the car
: for about an hour
: decided to give it
: another try. Same thing
: did not really like it
: all that much, after 3
: or 4 puffs threw it out
: again. I never did get
: rid of the pack and just
: kept them in my glove
: box. About two days
: later I had a really bad
: day at work and after
: leaving decided to try
: it again. I ended up
: smoking most of it and
: it felt pretty good. To
: fast forward a little I
: have gradually been
: smoking a little more
: like about 2 or 3 day
: mostly in the car. My
: husband still does not
: know and I am afraid to
: tell him because I know
: he will not like it and
: it will cause a big
: argument, etc....but I
: know I will have to tell
: him before he finds out
: himself. I seem to be
: comfortable smoking only
: a few a day but lately I
: have been thinking about
: smoking more. I don't
: know if I should or if I
: should just stick to a
: few a day? And how
: should I go about
: telling my husband
: without him getting
: upset?
:
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