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Late Bloomer Smokers
Posted by Amy on 6/1/2009, 16:18:22, in reply to "Hubby not happy"
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Hi! Gina,
Sorry to hear your hubby is giving you a rough time over you starting to smoke. I thought I would have the same problem because niether one of us had even thought about smoking till I took a trip with the ladies I work with to Las Vegas last year and I started out there. But I tell you what I think the very first time he found out about it he was very mad because he did not find out from me he found out by getting the checkbook out of my purse and seen my cigarettes in my purse. He waited for me to tell him I was smoking. I am 55 he is 54 years old. I work for the Ohio Department of Health and have a very stressfull job and do a lot of traveling. It sounds like you may have a very stressfull job and do a lot traveling all so. Now since I have been smoking a year I would not have it any other way and niether would he. Now he actually admits it has made me calmer, easier to get along with,I can control my weight better, it has just changed me all the way around and my husband loves the way it has changed me. It has all so changed the way I dress and I do not mean I dress sleasy now either. I have just become bolder now in everyway. I use to be a puppy dog. Your of age and if you want to smoke which obviously you do go for it if he loves you and you have a good marriage he will not hold it against you. I can tell over the last year it has made our marriage stronger. For me the long driving trips are not so boring now.
GOOD LUCK!!!
AMY
--Previous Message--
: Well I told my hubby on
: Saturday that I have
: started smoking. He was
: surprised that I would
: start a nasty & bad
: habit. I pretty much
: told him that I am only
: smoking about 3-4 a day.
: He was not buying it. He
: said it is just a matter
: of time when you are
: going to want more.
: Needless to say I have
: been wanting to do it
: more. After a few hours
: now I am getting anxious
: and feel like I need one
: but I did not tell him
: that. That night we had
: a social gathering and I
: could tell he was not
: happy with me. So I was
: pretty much smoking a
: little more than usual
: because of the situation
: and also because I had a
: few drinks it made me
: want to smoke more also.
: I have to leave to go
: out of town for work
: tommorow for a few days
: and maybe when I come
: home he will not be as
: upset about it. I don't
: want to become addicted
: but feel I have. How
: have other people dealt
: with this situation?
:
: --Previous Message--
: Hi,
:
: I am 42 years old and
: recently decided to
: start smoking. I have
: been traveling a lot
: with my job and was at a
: meeting recently and
: afterwards we all
: decided to go out for
: drinks. Everybody was
: smoking except I. The
: next day after work I
: decided to go buy a pack
: of Marlboro lights and
: try it out for the 3
: hour ride home. I was
: really anxious to try
: the first one. After
: lighting up and taking a
: few puffs I threw it out
: the window thinking to
: myself how can anyone
: smoke these things.
: After being in the car
: for about an hour
: decided to give it
: another try. Same thing
: did not really like it
: all that much, after 3
: or 4 puffs threw it out
: again. I never did get
: rid of the pack and just
: kept them in my glove
: box. About two days
: later I had a really bad
: day at work and after
: leaving decided to try
: it again. I ended up
: smoking most of it and
: it felt pretty good. To
: fast forward a little I
: have gradually been
: smoking a little more
: like about 2 or 3 day
: mostly in the car. My
: husband still does not
: know and I am afraid to
: tell him because I know
: he will not like it and
: it will cause a big
: argument, etc....but I
: know I will have to tell
: him before he finds out
: himself. I seem to be
: comfortable smoking only
: a few a day but lately I
: have been thinking about
: smoking more. I don't
: know if I should or if I
: should just stick to a
: few a day? And how
: should I go about
: telling my husband
: without him getting
: upset?
:
:
:
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