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Late Bloomer Smokers
Posted by Gina on 6/1/2009, 14:06:36, in reply to "Have decided to smoke"
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Well I told my hubby on Saturday that I have started smoking. He was surprised that I would start a nasty & bad habit. I pretty much told him that I am only smoking about 3-4 a day. He was not buying it. He said it is just a matter of time when you are going to want more. Needless to say I have been wanting to do it more. After a few hours now I am getting anxious and feel like I need one but I did not tell him that. That night we had a social gathering and I could tell he was not happy with me. So I was pretty much smoking a little more than usual because of the situation and also because I had a few drinks it made me want to smoke more also. I have to leave to go out of town for work tommorow for a few days and maybe when I come home he will not be as upset about it. I don't want to become addicted but feel I have. How have other people dealt with this situation?
--Previous Message--
: Hi,
:
: I am 42 years old and
: recently decided to
: start smoking. I have
: been traveling a lot
: with my job and was at a
: meeting recently and
: afterwards we all
: decided to go out for
: drinks. Everybody was
: smoking except I. The
: next day after work I
: decided to go buy a pack
: of Marlboro lights and
: try it out for the 3
: hour ride home. I was
: really anxious to try
: the first one. After
: lighting up and taking a
: few puffs I threw it out
: the window thinking to
: myself how can anyone
: smoke these things.
: After being in the car
: for about an hour
: decided to give it
: another try. Same thing
: did not really like it
: all that much, after 3
: or 4 puffs threw it out
: again. I never did get
: rid of the pack and just
: kept them in my glove
: box. About two days
: later I had a really bad
: day at work and after
: leaving decided to try
: it again. I ended up
: smoking most of it and
: it felt pretty good. To
: fast forward a little I
: have gradually been
: smoking a little more
: like about 2 or 3 day
: mostly in the car. My
: husband still does not
: know and I am afraid to
: tell him because I know
: he will not like it and
: it will cause a big
: argument, etc....but I
: know I will have to tell
: him before he finds out
: himself. I seem to be
: comfortable smoking only
: a few a day but lately I
: have been thinking about
: smoking more. I don't
: know if I should or if I
: should just stick to a
: few a day? And how
: should I go about
: telling my husband
: without him getting
: upset?
:
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