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Late Bloomer Smokers
Posted by ILSL on 5/27/2009, 15:41:49, in reply to "Have decided to smoke"
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Read through the postings on this board and you will a number of women worry about how to tell their husband. In most cases, when it finally comes out, the husband is OK with the wife's smoking. He won't stop loving his wife. In my opinion, I think it would help your husband's acceptance if you smoke in a social situation (at a party with your husband for example)and then gradually extend your smoking to more casual or intimate situations (at home for example).
--Previous Message--
: Hi,
:
: I am 42 years old and
: recently decided to
: start smoking. I have
: been traveling a lot
: with my job and was at a
: meeting recently and
: afterwards we all
: decided to go out for
: drinks. Everybody was
: smoking except I. The
: next day after work I
: decided to go buy a pack
: of Marlboro lights and
: try it out for the 3
: hour ride home. I was
: really anxious to try
: the first one. After
: lighting up and taking a
: few puffs I threw it out
: the window thinking to
: myself how can anyone
: smoke these things.
: After being in the car
: for about an hour
: decided to give it
: another try. Same thing
: did not really like it
: all that much, after 3
: or 4 puffs threw it out
: again. I never did get
: rid of the pack and just
: kept them in my glove
: box. About two days
: later I had a really bad
: day at work and after
: leaving decided to try
: it again. I ended up
: smoking most of it and
: it felt pretty good. To
: fast forward a little I
: have gradually been
: smoking a little more
: like about 2 or 3 day
: mostly in the car. My
: husband still does not
: know and I am afraid to
: tell him because I know
: he will not like it and
: it will cause a big
: argument, etc....but I
: know I will have to tell
: him before he finds out
: himself. I seem to be
: comfortable smoking only
: a few a day but lately I
: have been thinking about
: smoking more. I don't
: know if I should or if I
: should just stick to a
: few a day? And how
: should I go about
: telling my husband
: without him getting
: upset?
:
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