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Jer, Sorry you are going through this. I have to admit that your surgeon isn't sounding too supportive. So what do you do about that. If it was me I might insist on having a one on one with him and telling him that what is happening here is not acceptable. If that doesn't work you might think about getting a new surgeon, someone that will be more compassionate and caring and willing to work with you. Is there a department within this hospital system that handles complaints? Is there someone to talk to?
Now, how are you doing? Do you have any questions that we can help you with?
Hang in there, and you are not alone.