Posted by Alex on May 11, 2012, 11:20:47, in reply to "Re: To Travis and Anon - my friends Silke and Co."
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Hi Travis,
Silke is not pregnant now unfortunately. She just told me that she wants to have another baby soon and that Bernd and she try it every day :-)
In Silke's case I could imagine that and I'll ask her if she ever made a kind of a smoke contest or how much was the most she chained in a row, ok?
Susanne is not addicted enough to do that I think. She only smokes 2ppd. I am quite sure she will be on a good way to increase if she is around with Silke and especially if the baby is born...maybe she will chain much more then.
How did you support your mum? What did you do as a child to support her?
Did she smoke heavily around you, blowing smoke in your face, smoking in closed areas like your room, driving in the car with windows up and so on?
If so, do you remember if you liked that?
Smoky regards
Alex
--Previous Message--
: Is Silke pregnant now?
: Do you think Silke or
: Susanne would enjoy
: constantly chaining and
: never taking a break
: between cigarettes?
: Could you ask them about
: that and make it seem
: like a goal?
: I think it's wonderful
: how much they smoke. My
: mom smoked and I
: supported her. I would
: support any partner I
: was with to amoke
: heavily and never cut
: down.
: --Previous Message--
: Hi Travis,
:
: see again my respones
: below:
:
: Is Susanne making an
: effort to increase her
: smoking or just smoking
: without thinking?
:
: She just smokes without
: thinking. She smokes as
: much as her system tells
: her to. And now she is
: just very hjappy having
: switched to Marlboro red
: 100s instead of the
: lights.
:
: Will she make moer of an
: effort to increase once
: she has given birth?
:
: I don't think she will
: make an effort because
: she smokes without
: thinking about it. I am
: just sure that she will
: smoke more because of 2
: reasons:
: 1. She is often together
: with Silke who smokes a
: lot more than her
: 2. She will, as any
: other mum as well, have
: a lot of stress after
: giving birht with 2
: little kids. You could
: as well see an impact
: ion her smoking cause by
: little Christian.
:
: Is Susanne going to
: exhale in her baby's
: face from the first day
: home?
:
: I am quite sure because
: she already startd this
: with Christian her
: little son now and it
: seems now normal for
: her. I think in case of
: the baby she will also
: do it without thinking
: of it, just becuase its
: normal for her now.
:
: Is Susanne going to
: breastfeed?
:
: Yes, she also
: breastfeeded Christian
: as she told me. And yes,
: she was smoking at that
: time so I am absolutely
: sure she will not stop
: smoking because of this.
:
: Do Susanne and Silke
: exhale LESS in their
: children's faces when
: the child is sick?
:
: Yes
:
: Does Susanne plan to get
: pregnant a third time?
:
: As far as I know Silke
: wants to have only 2
: kids, Susanne wants to
: have 3 kids,so,yes !
:
: Will she get her tubes
: tied or be on birth
: control?
:
: Sorry, my english ios
: too bad, I do not
: understand that
: sentence....
:
: How long does Susanne
: plan to wait to get
: pregnant?
:
: She wants to have 3 kids
: whose ages only differ
: to 2 years. So, she will
: try to get pregnant
: around 2 years after the
: 2nd baby is born.
:
: If Susanne makes a big
: increase on smoking (say
: up to 3-4 ppd) will she
: cut down when she gets
: pregnant again?
:
: At the weekend I
: discussed about that
: with her and Bernd and
: we all came to the
: conclusion that she
: should smoke as much as
: she wants. So, I think
: she will not cutback.
:
: Do you think Susanne
: will start smoking
: nonfilters daily once
: the baby is born?
:
: I am quite sure she will
: smoke non filters more
: and more. I could see
: already during the last
: weeks how much she loves
: and needs them because
: of her heavy addiction.
: Because she also love
: her Davidoffs really
: really badly I
: persobnally think she
: will smoke 2ppd Davidoff
: and 1-2ppd non filters
: as soon as the baby is
: born.
:
: Will she stop them if
: she gets pregnant again?
:
: She only want to have 1
: additional baby and so I
: think during this
: pregnancy she will go on
: smoking lots of Davidoff
: and 1/2ppd of non
: filters.
:
: Are Susanne and Silke a
: stay at home mom?
:
: Yes, both of them
:
: Can you ask/encourage
: Silke to increase?
:
: I think she increases
: anyway because of her
: addiction. She knows
: that even I as a non
: smoker fully support
: that and so, I don't
: have to encourage her
: actively. She smokes as
: much as she want and
: even increases her
: amount of non filters
: because she KNOWS that
: especially Bernd and
: also I and her other
: friends fully support
: her on doing that.
:
: I think it is a good
: idea if I will discuss
: all these topics more in
: detail with the 2
: families during the
: weekend if we all meet
: again at Susanne's and
: Marks place!
: Do you have any
: additional questions for
: them ?
:
: Do you think they do
: right in what they do?
:
: Do you like such nice
: heavy smoking parents
: and would you support
: such mums if your own
: wife or girlfriend would
: be such an heavy smoker?
: What would you tell your
: heavy smoking girlfriend
: when she gets pregnant
: or if she already gave
: birth?
: How would you handle all
: the kid and baby stuff I
: described?
:
: Smoky regards
:
: Alex
:
:
:
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