Posted by "nic" Some women will pretend to be amused by the idea of someone being attracted to them because they smoke when the truth is that they are fascinated. When you have come across a woman who was "amused" by your smoking fetish, did they get up and walk away? That is not what happened to me! Suddenly they were saying things like, "I think that's cute," or even, "You're cute." (Of course, it all depends on how you bring up the subject). Assuming it is done tastefully, they wouldn't react that way if they weren't interested. I think you're right about smoking being viewed as a more "tame" fetish. I don't think that a girl would react the same way about a smoking fetish as she would if you told her that you would be turned on by seeing her masterbate violently with a 12 inch black dildo. In fact, it is likely that if you said that to a girl, she might shove her knee between your legs and put her cigarette out in your eye! One night, I noticed an attractive smoker sitting at a bar. What attracted me at first was her long, deep, cheek hollowing drags and deep open mouth inhales. The second thing that I noticed is something that I just love to see a woman do; she exhaled almost exclusively through her nose. She also had a great nose for doing it; slender along the bridge, with a slight widening toward the end and a subtle flare of the nostrils. Because she inhaled so deeply, her exhales were not the explosive, billowing, fluffy kind, but long, airy, and forceful, with slightly visible residual smoke streams as she was breathing. Her smoke looked soft and inviting as it flowed over her breasts and then hovered around them in feathery wafts. I started to get turned on by watching her and noticed the vacant seat next to her. I went over and sat down next to her without saying a word. She looked a little annoyed at my intrusiveness, but then the bartender came by and I ordered a drink for me and another of whatever she was having. She immediately said, "Oh no, you don't have to do that." (Great smoker's voice, sweet and femine, but slightly raspy). She had dark brown hair, and pale blue eyes. There was a darkness under they eyes and a look about her that showed she was a smoker, a heavy smoker. She had ample breasts and a decent body, but obviously given more to pleasure than athletics. She had a pack of Marlboro 100 reds on the bar in front of her. The flip top box was open and there were a couple of the long cork filters sticking out of the pack and pointed towards her, ready for easy access. A large black lighter was sitting upright on the bar next to the pack. There was a feeling that I got; the way the pack of cigarettes and lighter were sitting on the bar in front of her, it was almost as if she was ADVERTISING that she was a smoker. We introduced ourselves and had a little small talk session until the drinks arrived. Then, almost out of the blue, she drew one of the long Marlboros out of the pack, held it out to me and asked, "Would you like a cigarette?" Every thing about the way she did this was perfect to me. She did it right after she took a big inhale and the smoke was still deep in her lungs. When I looked at her she had pleasent smile on her face and streams of smoke were flowing out of her nose. I accepted her offer and she quickly picked up the lighter and lit my cigarette for me. I thanked her and commented that it is not often that a woman lights my cigarette for me. She said that it was the least she could do, since I bought her a drink. I commented that I liked her brand and it was as if the dam gave way. She started talking about smoking and how she has to have her cigarettes when she is drinking. The conversation went into more detail, about how she rushes outside on her breaks at work, and chainsmokes. She talked about smoking while she is driving and how her car stinks of smoke and the ashtray is always is full, because she forgets to empty it. She told me that people are always complaining about her smoking and telling her that she should quit. I told her that it didn't bother me and then asked her if she still likes to smoke. She said that she does enjoy it, but gets tired of people b###hing at her. I told her that she I didn't think she should stop doing something that she enjoys in order to please someone else. She was very receptive to this comment. She got a big smile on her face, took hold of my hand and said, "Thank you, you're really sweet." I decided the time was right and told her that I actually prefer women that smoke. She said, "Well that's a switch." As the conversation went on, she started to talk about how she enjoys the smell of pipe smoke and asked me if I ever smoke a pipe. She said that she used to have a boss that smoked a pipe in the office where she worked. She talked about how how much she hates the smoking regulations and how much she missed being able to sit at her desk and smoke. Well, we have become very good friends and perhaps leading to a bit more. Unfortunately, I am not a pipe smoker. I've tried it and the aroma is nice, but I found it awkward and messy. I don't think I would want to take it up just to please her. --Previous Message--
on March 20, 2006, 3:43:44, in reply to "Re: The Mature Smoker - Beautifully Described!"
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Yes, conversations involving the smoking fetish can get very interesting. I have had many women make almost that exact same comment to me, "that's strange, someone actually likes my smoking!" When they have made that comment, I have noticed that they suddenly seem to be more relaxed in knowing that they don't have to hide it, or feel inhibited. I think that a woman who exploits her smoking after she has discovered that you like it, would be more likely to have similar thoughts about smoking. Her willingness to participate, by teasing, or catering to your fetish can only mean one thing; that she likes it too!
: good points nic! I have
: known over the years
: several women,who i have
: "shared" my
: interest in their
: smoking with them. i can
: say that they were at
: least "amused"
: by it. one woman told me
: once, "this is a
: change, someone actually
: likes my smoking!".
: another woman i
: know,really had a lot of
: fun with it. we would be
: in public, (a bar, etc)
: or the car and she would
: exhale her smoke close
: to my face and tease me
: to no end with it. i
: would not tell all women
: i have met about my
: fetish but i have had
: some great experiences
: over the years by just
: talking about it. i have
: found that they will
: talk about their
: "smoking
: experiences" over
: their lifetime, no
: problem, and have some
: fun with it. the trick
: is, you hve to tell them
: about it. the way i feel
: about it, for a fetish,
: it is really not that
: over the top as some.
: just some thoughts.
:
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