Posted by Michelle
on 12/10/2005, 11:12 am
207.47.141.228
Hey everyone, this is my first posting but I have been on the site before.
My mom got diagnosed with cancer almost a year ago. The doctor misdiagnosed her for the first few months and by the time they found out, it spread and she has it in her kidney, lung, liver and pelvic bone. The doctors really didn't have much hope for her so we found an alternate method of treatment dealing with herbal medicinces.
Well all I can say is she is still living but not sure its a good living. Right now her mind seems to not be there much, she confuses things alot and her memory is not good. This is all only a part of the reason I want to post. My boyfriend has moved 8 hours away from me to go to school and I want to be with him but I am torn.
I want to be here for my mom but I also love my boyfriend. Everyone I talk to say that I can't put my life on hold because my mom being sick, but I always say she can't have cancer forever right. Looking on here though I realize now that she could have it for quite awhile.
I'm 24 years old and have been with my boyfriend for over 2 years, we both want to get married and have a family in the next few years, but we can't do that if we are 8 hours apart.
Thanks for reading, any opinions/suggestions greatly appreciated.
Michelle
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