| Re: Passing of Larry's Mother
Posted by Mike Slater   on November 1, 2008, 1:19 pm, in reply to "Re: Passing of Larry's Mother" 205.188.117.201
Very nice tribute to your Mom, Larry. It's never easy to lose a parent, but it does get easier as time moves on. I too spent the most time with my Dad in his last years in the nursing home where he was and it really left a big gap in my life not to be able to visit him or ever see him again after he passed on. But now that a few years have gone by, the things that stand out the most in my mind are the pleasant times we had together and remembering what a caring and loving Father he was to me and our family. I'm sure that time will do the same for you, easing your pain and leaving you with just the happy thoughts of your life with your Mom. --Previous Message-- : I appreciate all the cards, letters and other : condolences I've received after the passing : of my mother, Olga. As her hands-on : caregiver for the past nine years, she and I : shared quite a journey, that had its rough : spots but also many wonderful times. My Mom : was still talking a little each day, despite : being in the throes of Alzheimer's, and : communicated in non-verbal ways with : affection. : : I suppose everybody thinks of their mother : in kindly terms, but I have to tell you that : mine was exceptional. I have never known : anyone with her depth of compassion, : steadfast love, SELFLESSNESS, reliability, : honesty and good qualities too numerous to : mention. As a wife and mother she was : perfection personified. She had a cheerful : outlook on life but was not a Pollyanna. She : had a finely developed sense of fairness, : could detect a con artist a mile away, and : was always forgiving, even when people close : to her hurt her time and time again. : : I decided when my mother became ill that I : would document this journey, and so I kept a : daily diary, plus have audio and video on : her. After I wrap up my Jim Reeves book, : which has been so long in the making, I : intend to do a (slim) volume on Alzheimer's. : It is my hope that I can share with other : caregivers some of the practical tips I : learned along the way on how to care for a : loved one afflicted with this dreaded : disease, what to expect, etc. I wish I'd had : a guide during the last nine years, but : instead I had to learn these things on my : own. : : In her 87 years and 116 days, Olga Martha : Buseman Jordan never let a day go by without : expressing gratitude to the Lord for His : many blessings, and she honored Him in so : many ways by serving her fellow man. She had : a deep appreciation for the natural world : around her, and an unwavering belief in His : goodness. I know she never worried about the : hereafter. Her Christian faith was : monumental, and she lived that faith every : day of her life. It is terrible for me to : lose her, as she was my best friend right up : to the end, but she taught me to trust in : God and His infinite wisdom, and that is : what sustains me now. : : :
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