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Posted by still struggling I really hope that things start getting better for you too! Thanks for your response.
on 10/28/2004, 9:31 pm, in reply to "good greif this sounds familiar"
Are you and your husband still together? Sounds like you have really been put through it. It does not sound like your husband has done much to help you through this. My husband has been pretty good but everytime I try to talk to him about it, he just locks up. He believes that some of the questions (details) that I ask for are not necessary. He says you know what goes on between a man and a woman and that is all that I need to know. Now I am okay with not knowing all details and I don't ask for them anymore. What he has gotten tired of me saying is stuff like "I ran into ***** in the store", he just does not want to hear about it. He states that all of our arguments lead right back to this. Now with this and all the little things that have added up, he feel like it is not going to improve. I want to see my marriage work and I do want to get back to "normal life". I have played the victim role really well. I just really wish that he understood just how devastating this is and how much it can change your life. I think by him not understanding and not talking with me about it has made it worse.
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