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Posted by GPG on 10/28/2004, 3:58 pm, in reply to "Re: Need some advice/help!!" My H was still lying and still not being very open. still not letting go of the OW emotionally and still not doing what was needed to rebuild the trust and respect that was lost. He still thought I should just get over it. Well 3.5 years later and I still haven't gotten over it. I am still finding out stuff that happened before the affair and he doesn't get it. He said "It wasn't a lie about the affair. I don't understand why you are so upset" The more my H pushes me to get over it the more hurt I feel.
it is over 3.5 years since D-day and I am still not healed. Counsellors (yes plural) were both not worth spit. One advised me not to talk about the affair in the sessions at all. Can you imagine that??? He said I should get a seperate counselor to discuss the affair because I had anger issues about it. My H wasn't even moved back home at the time after moving out to be with the OW!!!!
8 months later we tried another one and this one after a few sessions said that I shouldn't talk about anything over 6 months in the past!!! what????
that statement alone tells me so much about his character that I am beyond discouraged.
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