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Posted by Jody on 10/28/2004, 3:01 pm, in reply to "Need some advice/help!!" Welcome to the board. I am almost 21 months past Dday and although I consider MYSELF healed(well, most days anyway), my marriage has not survived. Although I haven't handled my recovery perfectly and I have definitely done things that I am not proud of since Dday, the main reason that we are not staying together is because he refuses to accept responsibility for his affair and seek help. When I was at the very lowest point, he did very little to help me. Are the two of you going to counselling? Is he being open, honest, and doing EVERYTHING he can to rebuild trust? Has he looked deep within HIMSELF and discovered the "why" of his affairs? The road to recovery is a long, painful journey. You can't rush it. It takes as long as it takes. There is no "getting over it". You get through it. I hope that your H is doing everything in his power to help you through this. Jody P.S. Go to www.aftertheaffair.net and there is a GREAT book you can download for 5 bucks. It strictly for the WS.
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