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Posted by Dana Currently, my IC is a male. This same male counselor for me is also our MC. However, my H has a different IC who is also a male. Was that confusing?? Anyway, I've been thinking about changing to a different IC for me. The counselor I see now is very nice, and seems knowledgable on the topic, but I sometines feel I'm not getting anywhere. I've felt "stuck" for a while. My IC is a good listener, and certainly validates a lot of what I say to him. That's all good, right? He has made some small suggestions related to self-help books, audio CD's, etc., BUT I feel like I really need someone more agressive to say, "Now this is what you need to do..." or "Here's something that will help you get unstuck..." Maybe my expectations of a counselor are too high. Maybe I'm unrealistically looking for a magical answer. I don't know. I just wish someone could help me better with grabbing that bull by the horns!! Would a female counselor be any different, or does it just really depend on the counselor's personality in the way they practice and not their gender?
on 10/27/2004, 1:35 pm
Just wondering if anyone out there prefers a male or female for counseling them on their infidelity issues. If you are a female, do you prefer a female counselor? Does it matter if you are the BS or the WS as to whether you prefer a male or female?
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