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Posted by Joy1 on 10/26/2004, 3:46 pm I had a long toak with my H about this and he agreed. He is going to get a paternity test done. YEA!!! and then we will know for sure. You are a good person. I must say that you are a better person than I am. I cannot allow my self or my children to be a part of this childs life. I know that I am holding the child accountable for the f!cked up sh!t the my H and the OW did, but this is an area that I have to work on and I feel that I can take as much time as I need to do it. Believe me, I 'm in no rush. Don't allow your H to pick up the child alone. This is his child, you are his wife and you will be a part ot this childs life whether the OW likes it or not. If she doesn't want you at her home, fine. Then bring the child to a neutral location ie...McDonalds, etc. and both you and your H can pick her up from there. If he get pissed of about it, then ask him why doesn't he want you to go along with him? What is he trying to hide? He'll prpbably get mad, and if you are like me, you try to avoid confrontations but screw it, he put you and himself in this position. Either shit or get off of the pot. To my friends: I have a problem. The OW is stralking my home. We live about 30 miles from her and she constantly drives in front of my home and slows down. She scares my kids by doing this. Today, my H pressed charges aganist her for harrassment and he put a restraining order on her. She caught up with him in the neighborhood and tried to get into his car. He called the police on her. This b!tch is crazy!!! What can I do about this? She already has a restraining order aganist her for harrassing me on the job. What actions can I take to square this away? I would truly appreciate any info.
WG,
I am in the same situation as you. I have had a lot of help and support from my friends on this board. The difference is that my H does not know if the child is his. Someone on this board really opened my eyes when they told me that my H was trying to play the "Hero" by still providing food for this child. (He lives in the dumps with his mother...The b###h).
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