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Posted by apaman I bring all this up so that you can all hopefully understand that I am not some caveman "me want OS". I want to made to feel desirable. I want to feel like I am worthy of some effort on her part. Effort that has to do with me, not the house or kids. She works so hard, but I feel it is to make up for her guilt and inability to give me the love I crave.
on 10/24/2004, 7:37 am, in reply to "Re: One she wasn't drugged for"
What she is referring to is another incident that just came to light. My W gave OS to another man, a different OM, once. You missed it I guess. It was posted about a month or two ago.
When I was Paralyzed the second time, a friend came to help my wife get me in the tub and do some chores one day. After they got me back in bed and settled in, I went to sleep she offered to pay him and he refused. After some talking and joking, she offered again to pay him and he told her he would like to do one last chore....HER! He told her what a waste for such a beautiful woman to not be "getting any". She refused, then he told her he wanted OS in a matter of fact way and she says she felt like she should do it. At this point she had never stepped outside of her vows, but she did. You know it is as Lena says, forceful people and/or a little alcohol and she gives whatever is asked for.
Please Caroline, Feel free to voice any opinions or concerns. I am all too honest and open as you can see. I understand how you would not want to buy into the GHB story. I know I wouldn't but I am the one that found the crap in the drawer with the pictures. I never thought anything of it at the time, but when DDay came and my wife swore she couldn't remember anything other than a few flashes of her giving him OS...(theres that thing again)...outside that one night, the last time they were together when she decided she wouldn't drink and see what it was like. As I have said before she knew she was having sex with him, by the "evidence", but couldn't remember it the next day. She assumed it was guilt and alcohol. She also insisted the 2 or 3 beer or winecoolers was her maximum. Then I asked if she got her drinks or he brought them to her. He always got them for her. I suspected then that maybe he had been slipping something in the drinks. When I finally told her of the photos....about 6mos after DDay, I remembered seeing that stuff in the drawer with them. IT was a clear little bottle with a clear liquid inside labeled simply "buzz" with black magic marker. There were 3 bottles in a little container.
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