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Posted by apaman
on 10/24/2004, 6:23 am, in reply to "Re: BETH, Posts Edited"
Message modified by user apaman 10/24/2004, 8:04 am
In making sure she gets on the board anytime I post that I am having a problem, specifically if anyone is sympathetic to my plight. She knows it is a very hot button of mine because of the difference in what happened and how she likes to utilize it. She uses it to prod me into an argument and it works most times.
It is something that I brought up a couple years ago here, just like the recent comments, in an attempt to be perfectly honest with people and not just put half truths or whole lies out for others to read. It has haunted me since that day. I went to another board once and she made sure everyone knew about it there, which eventually led to a huge blow up, all over something that wasn't anything near what she portrayed it to be.
I have never hid anything, like I said before, we give each other advice that is too often based on a very biased one side of an issue. We don't hear the whole story in most cases.
You know, every time I mention a sex act in specific, Beth gets upset. I know that sex acts are what brought all of us to this place and upset all our lives, and that is why I feel the more open and honest we are the more we help not only ourselves but others. She asks what about that new person, reading such a thing, well, what if that person experienced something similar and was too ashamed to mention it, but now sees they are not alone.
I would tell you about it, but I think you can recall it if you try. Maybe it didn't bother you to the point of remembering or associating only that with me as some have.
Anyway, Glad you are moving on and doing well.
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