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Posted by Lena If you don't want to examine the causes of her behavior then you will need to change into the kind of person that her particular trauma dynamic responds to, which is powerful, agressive and abusive. This is what she is able to feel. Beyond that everything else is tame. Now you need to decide whether to do the work with her to cleanse this demon or respond to the demon and have your needs met. But I warn you it will not be love and passion you will get. It will be compliance and resentment. If that is something you are willing to get then go ahead. I did not mean to offend you only warn you from a perspective of having been there and recoved to a certain degree. I still have issues with intimacy, not sex, but allowing myself to be open enough to love completely, those are things that take a lot of time and sometimes never happen for others. I don't recall you talking about kissing, lovemaking and passion. What I heard in your post is that you want what OM got in disgusting photos. That is what I responded to.
on 10/23/2004, 11:57 am, in reply to "Re: I don't get it..."
Traumatized children respond to things is a very dead way usually. The also are somewhat held prisnor throught the rest of there lives by aggressive people that seem to have more power to them.
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