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Posted by Beth You have previously stated many times that the two of you are ecstatically happy and held yourselves up as poster children for others who would like a game plan on how to recover. Now here you are explaining in disgustingly graphic terms why things are not so perfect in paradise anymore. I find the whole topic distasteful, given the background. I did post above to you that it mystifies me why your wife cannot give freely of sexual favors to you, her beloeved and cherished husband. The reason it mystifies me is that I am not like that, I was never abused, I do not have kinky experimental adultery in my background, and simply put, I am not you nor am I her. So, it's tough for me to grasp, given all the nuances. I still contend that you and the wife desperately need some counseling. You said that this is your only counseling. That is a grave mistake. This board cannot substitute for real counseling, especially in severe cases of dysfunction such as yours. If your wife won't cooperate, at least find a counselor for yourself who you trust and respect and lay it ALL out for him or her. I fear this is your only chance at possible mental health and happiness. If you think I am being hard on you, please note that I have severely restrained myself in this post.
on 10/23/2004, 11:30 am, in reply to "BETH, Posts Edited"
Apa, you have asked me a bunch of questions. Like for instance, did I ever wonder what was in the photos. No. You and apawife have in the past very graphically told everyone here the most minute details of everything involved. However, now you are trying to get someone here to tell you a strategy for getting your wife to perform oral sex on you. I find the very concept offensive given your past history with her and the consensual adultery you both committed with this same OM before she decided to fly solo with him.
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