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Posted by Beth To me it is reminiscent of a guy saying "I can really tear off a piece! I give it to 'em every which way but loose, wring 'em out and put 'em away wet!" Now, is there a married woman in the world who would want to hear her husband speak this way about females? There is no point to this type of bragging other than to build up your own ego, and it indicates a mindset in which sexual partners can possibly include everybody, rather than one cherished individual. In your wife's case, the fact that she continues to deny you the very same sexual favors that she reveled in with another man, despite knowing it is those very specific favors that you crave as a component of your lovemaking relationship, is indicative of an interesting view she has toward your marriage. When I was married and when I was sexually involved with Mike, there was no sex act I didn't enjoy in the context of loving, passionate sex with my partner. To me, that's what committed lovemaking is all about. Pleasing your partner, and therefore being lucky enough to get the same attitude back, which ends up with everybody happy. I'm as baffled as you are as to her attitude about sex. I guess it's related to her sad upbringing and her consequent missteps since.
on 10/22/2004, 7:21 am, in reply to "Sometimes, I swear my wife is braindead"
What your wife said sounds like a vulgar expression that folks might share in a baudy locker room scenario to impress their peers. Not something you say to the person you enjoy making love with.
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